Posted on July 11, 2020Active
Dear potential mentors, I am currently going through tough times with my boyfriend of 7 years. He doesn’t share anything with me, including what’s going on at work, how he feels, he basically completely shut down. It all started when we talked about getting married and started talking about it to our families. I initially thought it was cold feet but he assured me he still wanted to get married, and completely denies his change of behavior. I don’t think I can keep going like this and certainly don’t want to get married to a man I don’t even recognize. But I get huge pressure for my family to keep organizing the ceremony, the reception and so on. Has anyone gone through the same crisis pre-marriage? Is this normal? If you have gone through the same situation and are willing to share your experience (only non-judgmental advice please), please feel free to contact me!